Self-Observation
Today
I focused on self-observation and reflection. I noticed my communication with
strangers, friends, and family. Each interaction, whether it is face-to-face,
body language, or technology, differs depending on whom it is with. Evaluating
each situation made me realize how second nature communication is.
Today,
Sunday, October 2, 2016 was the last day of Parent’s Weekend. I began my day
going to brunch with my boyfriend’s parents at Miss Shirley’s. When I am with
Mr. and Mrs. Moore I have a bit more formality. I know them very well, but
because they are my boyfriend’s parents and I am more polite and well mannered
in their presence. Whenever the waitress, a stranger, came to the table there
was a sense of respectfulness. Because she was a stranger and was taking care
of us I noticed there was an extra bit of formality- more pleases and thank
you’s. First impressions are important and even though you will probably never
see your waiter or waitress again, you never want them to think you are
impolite.
After
brunch I came back to my room and did not touch my phone, computer, or TV for
an hour. During this period of time I noticed I was more attentive to my peers.
I was not distracted by the constant notifications my phone normally reminds me
of. This lack of distraction allowed me to be more in the moment and fully
focus on those around me. Throughout the day I was able to reflect on the power
of being in the moment and observe the contact and communication I have on a day-to-day
basis.
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